Divorce Mediation
Checklist - New York

Preparing for divorce mediation doesn’t have to feel overwhelming.

Having the right information and documents ready can help the process move more efficiently and keep discussions focused.

This checklist will help you get organized before your first session.

Financial Information

Start by gathering a clear picture of your financial situation.

It allows you to:

  • Income and employment details
  • Recent tax returns
  • Bank account statements
  • Retirement accounts and investments
  • Credit card balances
  • Loans and outstanding debts

Property and Assets

Identify all shared and individual assets.

It allows you to:

  • Real estate and property
  • Vehicles
  • Personal property of significant value
  • Business interests, if applicable

Household and Living Expenses

Understanding your monthly expenses helps guide realistic decisions.

Consider:

  • Housing costs
  • Utilities
  • Insurance
  • Childcare and education expenses
  • General living costs

Parenting and Custody Considerations

If children are involved, begin thinking about what a workable parenting plan might look like.

This may include:

  • Living arrangements
  • Schedules and holidays
  • Decision-making responsibilities
  • Communication between parents

Goals and Priorities

Take some time to think about what matters most to you.

Ask yourself:

  • What outcomes are most important
  • Where you may be flexible
  • What a fair resolution looks like for your situation

What to Expect During Mediation

You don’t need to have everything figured out before you begin.

Mediation is designed to help you work through decisions step by step in a structured and supportive way.

Take the First Step

Being prepared can make the process smoother, but you don’t have to do this alone.

Appointments are available in person or via Zoom.

Schedule a confidential consultation to get started and move forward with clarity.