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About Wieder Law
& Mediation

Choosing how to move through divorce is an important decision.
Working with the right divorce mediator to guide that process matters just as much.

At Wieder Law & Mediation, PLLC, the focus is exclusively on divorce mediation in New York and New Jersey, helping couples address the legal, financial, and practical issues of divorce with clarity, structure, and a more controlled approach.

Divorce mediation offers a private, practical way to work toward agreements without unnecessary conflict, delay, or cost.

Appointments are available in person or online via Zoom or Google Meet, depending on your preference.

About the Mediator

Howard Wieder, Esq. is a licensed attorney and trained mediator with a calm, balanced, and resolution-focused approach.

Throughout his legal career, Howard has focused on transactional work – the kind of work that requires people to identify common ground, address important details, and develop agreements that can actually work in real life.

That perspective shapes his approach to mediation.

Howard helps both parties better understand the issues in front of them, express their needs productively, and consider possible solutions without allowing the conversation to become focused on blame or escalation.

His goal is not to determine a winner or a loser. It is to create a structured environment where both sides can communicate more clearly and work toward an agreement they can live with.

Howard has completed mediation training through the New York State Council on Divorce Mediation and the Long Island Dispute Resolution Center. He is also a member of the New York State Bar Association.

His approach is grounded in professionalism, reliability, trust, and a genuine commitment to helping people move forward with greater clarity.

What You Can Expect

When working with Wieder Law & Mediation you can expect:

  • A structured and professional process from start to finish
  • A calm, neutral and focused environment
  • Clear guidance throughout each stage of the process
  • An emphasis on practical solutions, not unnecessary conflict
  • Flexibility with in-person or online video conference appointments

The process is designed to reduce unnecessary stress while keeping discussions organized, efficient, and productive.

Start with a Conversation

If you’re considering mediation, the first step is a conversation.

You’ll gain a clear understanding of how the process works and whether it’s the right fit for you.

Appointments are available in person or online via Zoom or Google Meet.

Schedule a confidential consultation to move forward with clarity and confidence.